Thursday, October 30, 2008

I'm Back (sort of)




We finally have the internet at our new home (it's been an ordeal). I know I've shown very little gratitude for all of my well wishers and friends, but I truly have appreciated the support. I am recommitted to reading all of the blogs that I have been missing during my summer and fall web vacation, but if I am only left with the 2 readers I began with (Dad and Nate), I am content, for even though I enjoy reading other blogs, I hesitated to come back to my own. In the end, it was for my family that I decided to press forward.

During my little sabbatical I have learned a valuable lesson. There are really, only so many hours in the day. With 4 children in 5 years, a breastfeeding infant, a special needs child, YW presidential duties (Sundays, activities, ward councils, presidency meetings, visits, so forth and so on), mother and housewife duties (do I even need to list those, I am sure you are familiar), there is the potential for magnificent stress and a visit to the state hospital. But I have been blessed (OK, so there was the Sunday morning that I threw my cell phone across the room when I realized I had received a text message earlier that day that ward council was moved up a half an hour, and I was now 45 min. late, seriously, a mom of 4, 5 and under is not going to get a text message early Sunday morning!). I just realized, very quickly, that sometimes we make ourselves busy. Everything that is not totally necessary has just dropped out, and I am at peace with that. My friends love me and understand if some nights I just need to hold my baby or if some days I just need to clean my home or take Lulu to an appointment. I stay off of my cell phone as much as possible and when I have to drive to and fro, I try to stay off the phone as well. And of course, there is the internet. I haven't had access at my home for 6 months now and I've appreciated the time and the peace it's brought. These circumstances aren't forever, and neither are my children, so I can sacrifice, it's OK. The internet sacrifice is over though, and I will try to write once a week, not that I am telling you you have to read, this information is just to avoid future phone calls about when I will be blogging.

So things have been good. Let's face it, it is what it is, busy, but I am happy.








School began for the girls. More on that another day.



There has been some noted sadness in Abram's eyes since his replacement has arrived, but he is still my beautiful boy and I am grateful for a son.






Rosemary is an infant, but a good infant (finally).



The name Rosemary Josephine is one part my mother, one part Norah, and one part my love of proper, historically rich, Catholic names.
My mother's baptized name is Mary Josephine, do not tell her I told you that, she likes to pretend it is Molly. I love my mother and have not yet paid tribute to her or anyone in her family in my childrens names, so the responsibility fell upon Rosmary. Norah insisted that we name her Roselinda. Norah may watch Spanish soap operas when left on her own, I'm not sure. Anyway, we merged the Rose with my mother's name and there you go.




I will just throw in some gratuitous pictures of my children now and then because there is a bit of a build up, you understand, right?
Lulu started occupational therapy at the Primary Children's satellite in Sandy. We were on a long waiting list but, I have to give praise where praise is due, especially when this journey we are taking is so increasingly frustrating. Adrienne, Lu's OT is awesome and rocks and I recommend her to anyone seeking OT for their child.



As for me, I have been cooking (I knew that someday I could justify my kitchen, kind of) and sewing with the young women. When I was called as the president, I was asked to teach homemaking skills. Around the birthday of a YW we learn to cook or bake the recipe she has chosen. This is always our largest turn out and really a lot of fun.
We have also been sewing pajama pants for YW in excellence. We also sewed a # of receiving blankets for a humanitarian aid project. Someone sewed something for me as well. My neighbor Katie, is the creator of the Shabby Baby dresses on Shabby Apple. She made me this beautiful nursing cape out of some of the fabric that the dresses are made from.

Thank you again Katie, I am the envy of all who endeavor to hide their hooters.


So tonight, when I am done with my visits, and my baby is fast asleep, I will take a trip visiting all the blogs that have been missed these 6 months and I am sure I will smile, laugh, and be pleased that I ever made such friends.

22 comments:

Shayleen Lunt said...

Martha - You definitely made me laugh out loud. Your writing is always so well done and then to hear you say "hooters" really caught me off guard.
So glad you are back though!

Trish said...

Welcome back! We all need a break sometimes.

Carina said...

Welcome back!

Wendy said...

Martha! Using my friends' terms, it sounds like you've made it through the Zombie and Witch stages to a level of peace and relative sanity! I've missed you, too! Let's definitely get together . . . soon! We are much more mobile and flexible than six months ago--whew!

AMiller said...

Glad to see you back. I always love thoughtful posts (maybe because mine aren't). Abrahm is a heartbreaker. Just take care of yourself. And call me if you ever want the kids to just come play so that you can have some alone time (I am totally serious).

Rochelleht said...

Oh, yeah! Hello, welcome back! So fun to see a comment from you and click over here to an update. LOVE it all. I was just called back into YW again and your ideas are PERFECT! I'm totally ripping them off. Thanks!

just jen said...

Miss Martha,

it sure is good to hear from you again...

i am glad that life is treating you well, it looks like you got your priorities in order, lady.

rosemary is beautiful.

Fordney said...

What's up hooter-mcgee. I didn't know the whole story about Rosemary's name. Man, Mom is getting way too many props this year. I shouldn't have named Molly- Molly :) I am glad you are back in the blog o' sphere. I look forward to running with you on Thanksgiving!

the wrath of khandrea said...

i am so glad you're back! i have thought of you often.

i'm glad you have unbusied your life. i wish i had done the same before my life crashed on me. who knows what might've been different. you are an amazing woman... if anyone can do it all and do it gracefully, it's you MC.

blog on my friend.

Annemarie said...

Welcome back! I kind of wish the internet was not available in mu house...sounds like a nice break!
Your kids are adorable, I'm glad tto hear that even through the craziness, all is well!

diane said...

Glad you're back. Your baby is precious. I'm impressed that you csn still communicate in complete sentences.

em kawasaki said...

You certainly are a busy woman and I feel honored to not only have a received a comment on my sorry and not-very-frequently-updated blog, but to be scheduled in for a visit! I look forward to it.

Nathan said...

MARTHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am so happy to have your blog to go to again!
I miss you terribly--your comment on my "Gone with the Gays"post--really touched me. I miss you a lot--I agree, we know each other in a way that really no one else does or could. I love you big sister.
and your children are beautiful--I cried a little reading and looking at the pics--I miss them.
I wanna hold Rosemary! She looks happy....
Ask Norah if she's run into Teresa Gonzales in her Mexican soap watching.
MISS YOU!

The Dobrons said...

Welcome back! Thanks for the update. The baby is beautiful. I just got released from Beehive advisor and I cried. But I'm excited for RS and not to have to prepare lessons for every Sunday! You seem to be doing great taking it one day at a time.

becky said...

so glad you're back martha! i miss you!

Kelie said...

So happy to have you back! I love to read your thoughts...you are so inspiring!

cathy said...

Finally got the internet!!! The kids are so beautiful!

Jake said...

Glad to see you back. Looks like you've been busy in the interim!!! But you've got a beautiful home and children to show for it.

Anonymous said...

It's great to get another little peek into your life. You have an amazing way of expressing yourself. I felt like I was sitting in your kitchen chatting with you once again. Your kiddos are darling and I'm touched at your strength. Huge hugs to you!

D-dawg said...

Welcome back. Your baby girl is so beautiful! Congratulations.

JT, Carly, Boston, Jocelyn and Snuggles said...

Martha,

So glad you are back. I have no idea how you do it all. I have less kids, a smaller house and much easier church calling and I may join you at the State Mental Hospital! You amaze me.

McKenzie Hansen said...

What a gorgeous house! Congratulations on the new baby boy!!!! Every mom needs a "momma's boy". I can't believe how big Nora is getting!!! We miss you guys!